I like this quote from none other than Deann Borshay Liem:
“I feel like I was denied the chance to be a Korean person,” she says. “If I hadn’t been adopted, I would have been a productive person. I’d probably be married, and maybe have five kids. I may not have gone to college, but I would have been productive. And I wouldn’t have spent so much time trying to come to terms with my identity.”
Full article here.